In this short article, which will only take you 10 minutes to read, we share 10 tips so you can enjoy oral pleasure without restrictions, just as you deserve!
It's incredible that if you just Google the phrase "oral sex," you'll find hundreds of notes related to how to perform this practice, its myths, its precautions, among other related topics. And this is because oral sex ranks as one of the most popular and, why not say it, most enjoyed sexual practices.
The obvious question is, how can one become skilled at oral pleasure? 🤔 Well, here are some tips that can help you, but it's important to remember that all bodies are unique, and we all feel differently. Therefore, what might be super pleasurable for me might not be so much for someone else. How do you know? Well, as the old saying goes, "practice makes perfect." 😋
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✋ ALWAYS WITH CONSENT AND PURPOSE
It is vital to have clear verbal consent between the parties involved in a sexual encounter, and oral sex is no exception. We want to emphasize this because we cannot ignore the fact that oral sex, due to a lack of knowledge and a phallocentric view of sexuality - which fortunately has been slowly disappearing in our society - has often been "imposed" by some people as a display of power and dominance. The pressure or pushing of the head onto the genitals, in the midst of an erotic encounter, which was normalized for so long, is now NO LONGER NORMAL, unless there has been a prior conversation where the individuals have consented to carry out this action as part of a role-playing game. But if not, it is not only offensive but aggressive. Don't forget.
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😊 FIND A COMFORTABLE SPOT
As you well know, performing oral sex on a penis, a vagina, or an anus requires a certain skill and endurance in the mouth and tongue, but if this is not accompanied by a good position, it will surely be uncomfortable for both the giver and the receiver. So, always try to be in a pleasant and comfortable position to fully enjoy this experience. It never hurts to use pillows, blankets, and other accessories that can be soft and comfortable.
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💦 ADD LUBRICATION
Saliva does not lubricate. Yes, you read that right. Let's stop thinking that we can solve everything with saliva. While it is a natural liquid in the mouth, sometimes it is not enough to generate the extra lubrication we need or would like to turn this oral experience into endless fun. And for that, friends, there is erotic cosmetics that delight us with wonderful sexual products like intimate lubricants with flavor and aroma, and also oral sex gels that not only facilitate oral sex (our mouth and tongue glide better over our partner's genitals and/or body) but also add new sensations like exquisite aromas and flavors, which brings us to the next tip.
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🔥❄ADD NEW SENSATIONS
Giving a fellatio (oral sex to a penis), a cunnilingus (oral sex to a vagina), or an anilingus (oral sex to an anus) can be a new experience, even if we've done it a million times. How? We can add new sensations like aromas, flavors, but also other effects that erotic cosmetics also provide. For this, there are intimate lubricants with heating, cooling, vibration, and other wonders.
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🙏 PRACTICE SAFE ORAL SEX
While we recommend adding flavors and aromas to oral sex, we must emphasize avoiding seeking these sensations by applying edible products to the genitals, such as classic whipped cream, fruits, or any product that has been manufactured for food consumption. Why? Because they contain sugar, and this ingredient changes the pH, which can increase the possibility of contracting some type of infection or allergy. Additionally, they can even break condoms. For this, there are erotic cosmetics that fulfill the same fantasy, but safely.
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👄EXPERIENCE SAFE DEEP THROAT
Now, if you want to practice deep throating because it arouses you and you've already discussed it with your partner, well, there's a way to do it without gagging, and that's by using sprays like our Deep Throat, which relax (desensitize) the throat and thus prevent the gag reflex. Our product even has a delicious and refreshing flavor.
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👅TRY DIFFERENT POSITIONS
There are many positions in which you can give and receive oral sex. Perhaps the most well-known is the 69, which allows for mutual and simultaneous oral pleasure between two people, but there's life beyond the 69! And to let your imagination run wild, there's nothing better than a good guide you can find through erotic parlor games.
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✌ BEYOND THE GENITALS
When we talk about oral sex, most people imagine the mouth-genital relationship, but the truth is that oral pleasure can extend all over our skin, our back, legs, anus (anilingus), neck, ears, hands, etc. Don't limit yourself to the genitals; we invite you to explore the other person's body with your tongue and mouth with complete confidence and without shame or prejudice. Plus, we remind you that the mouth itself is an erogenous zone, and kisses are a starting point for unleashing passion.
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👋SAY GOODBYE TO PREJUDICES
If we are going to be giving or receiving oral sex with our heads full of prejudices related to smells, tastes, whether it is right or wrong, etc., we will not enjoy this practice. Therefore, it is also important to inform ourselves and educate ourselves about this practice.
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😍 CONNECT AND COMMUNICATE
In oral sex, as in all sexual practices, it is very important that we have clear and respectful communication with our partner. There's no need to be afraid to tell the other person that maybe they're doing it too softly or too hard, or that, in fact, they're biting you (something that happens quite often and doesn't have to be a cause for a fight). But for this, it's important to cultivate communication beforehand, to have complicity, and to build that trust.